Youngest Daughter’s 28th; I Allowed Myself One Day of “Sad”

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Yesterday
It was my younger daughter’s 28th birthday yesterday. I sent a “Happy Birthday wherever you are” message to what used to be her email address, the only form of contact (maybe) I have for her. Even that email contact […]

By |August 24th, 2024|Current Events|Comments Off on Youngest Daughter’s 28th; I Allowed Myself One Day of “Sad”

Boundaries with Incarcerated Sociopathic Daughter

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Norman Rockwell Paintings

I love Norman Rockwell paintings. I fully realize that they are the quintessential “Americana” portraits of life in the early to mid-twentieth century and as such are an idealized version of family life. Still, there is […]

By |August 4th, 2024|Viewpoint|Comments Off on Boundaries with Incarcerated Sociopathic Daughter

My Daughter is a Sociopath, Part 2

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I chose the title image as it shows the relationship I think we all want with our daughters. The young daughter gives a gift of a pretty flower she picked just for her mom. The mom joyfully drops down to her daughter’s level to receive the […]

By |July 29th, 2024|Current Events|Comments Off on My Daughter is a Sociopath, Part 2

My Daughter is a Sociopath

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My daughter is a Sociopath. I have been thinking about that word a lot lately, as if “sociopath” is a math problem that if I just concentrate long enough on, I can solve.

What does “sociopath” even mean? What does the label mean in terms […]

By |July 11th, 2024|Viewpoint|Comments Off on My Daughter is a Sociopath

Portland Getaway

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My blogs have been rather dark lately, so I am going to talk about a recent vacation instead. It was both an anniversary celebration and a fun “getaway” to Portland, a city that neither my husband and I had ever been to. Though I work hard to remain anonymous in this […]

By |June 23rd, 2024|Current Events|Comments Off on Portland Getaway

Ten Year Sentence – Mother’s Day Reflections

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The last time I wrote a blog (two weeks ago), I sat in a coffee shop and wrote while my daughter was being sentenced to prison in another state. I found out the details several days later when the sentence was posted online. This is […]

By |May 12th, 2024|Current Events|Comments Off on Ten Year Sentence – Mother’s Day Reflections

That’s Life: Same Day…Sentencing and a Birthday

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I should be at work but have taken the day off as part of a plan to get through a difficult day, like mentally preparing for the labor of delivering a baby. Labor is not at all fun but breathing through it […]

By |April 22nd, 2024|Current Events|Comments Off on That’s Life: Same Day…Sentencing and a Birthday

I Don’t Want to Waste My Future by Being Stuck In My Present

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I bought a little book for my husband a few years ago, called Make Your Bed. I highly recommend it. The author is Admiral William H. McRaven (U.S. Navy Retired) and the book is based on a commencement speech he […]

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Easter Seems Like a Good Time to Be Hopeful Again

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After posting my dark blog last week, I (weirdly) felt a bit lighter in spirit, as if the heaviness of my soul was lifted after sending those words out into cyberspace. Along with slightly more positive thinking this past week, I have had a growing realization […]

By |March 31st, 2024|Viewpoint|Comments Off on Easter Seems Like a Good Time to Be Hopeful Again

Happiness is Like Log Rolling

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I don’t know how to be happy as a sustained state of being. I can be happy for moments and I have been trying to find joy in little things, but I struggle to be overall content with where […]

By |March 25th, 2024|Viewpoint|Comments Off on Happiness is Like Log Rolling