The Fine Art of Avoidance
There are a lot of good quotes out there about avoidance. Here are a few:
“You cannot find peace by avoiding life.” – Virginia Woolf
“You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today.” — Abraham Lincoln
“The best way out is always through.” — Robert Frost
If avoidance can be […]
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Summer
I have been retired now for about 7 weeks from the University where I worked for almost 4 years (after selling our business). I worked my last day on a Friday at the end of May then got on a plane to Amsterdam on […]
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This is the blog that I have put off writing since last September.
Last Fall
I took two weeks of intermittent FMLA (work leave) in early September 2024 when I flew across the country with my trans daughter to be her caretaker following […]
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Yesterday
It was my younger daughter’s 28th birthday yesterday. I sent a “Happy Birthday wherever you are” message to what used to be her email address, the only form of contact (maybe) I have for her. Even that email contact […]
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I chose the title image as it shows the relationship I think we all want with our daughters. The young daughter gives a gift of a pretty flower she picked just for her mom. The mom joyfully drops down to her daughter’s level to receive the […]
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My blogs have been rather dark lately, so I am going to talk about a recent vacation instead. It was both an anniversary celebration and a fun “getaway” to Portland, a city that neither my husband and I had ever been to. Though I work hard to remain anonymous in this […]
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The last time I wrote a blog (two weeks ago), I sat in a coffee shop and wrote while my daughter was being sentenced to prison in another state. I found out the details several days later when the sentence was posted online. This is […]
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I should be at work but have taken the day off as part of a plan to get through a difficult day, like mentally preparing for the labor of delivering a baby. Labor is not at all fun but breathing through it […]
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When I flew back with my four-month-old, adopted daughter, from her home country to my home, a prison scenario was not in my head as her future. I am furious; or maybe I am depressed mixed with grief. At […]
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My husband’s 108-year-old grandmother passed away on Monday, Jan 29th. Today is Friday, Feb 2nd, only four days later. Except for a few hours Monday afternoon when my husband and I went across town to pick up her personal effects from the care facility, I have continued showing up each day […]
