Ten Year Sentence – Mother’s Day Reflections

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The last time I wrote a blog (two weeks ago), I sat in a coffee shop and wrote while my daughter was being sentenced to prison in another state. I found out the details several days later when the sentence was posted online. This is […]

By |May 12th, 2024|Current Events|0 Comments

That’s Life: Same Day…Sentencing and a Birthday

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I should be at work but have taken the day off as part of a plan to get through a difficult day, like mentally preparing for the labor of delivering a baby. Labor is not at all fun but breathing through it […]

By |April 22nd, 2024|Current Events|0 Comments

I Don’t Want to Waste My Future by Being Stuck In My Present

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I bought a little book for my husband a few years ago, called Make Your Bed. I highly recommend it. The author is Admiral William H. McRaven (U.S. Navy Retired) and the book is based on a commencement speech he […]

By |April 7th, 2024|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Easter Seems Like a Good Time to Be Hopeful Again

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After posting my dark blog last week, I (weirdly) felt a bit lighter in spirit, as if the heaviness of my soul was lifted after sending those words out into cyberspace. Along with slightly more positive thinking this past week, I have had a growing realization […]

By |March 31st, 2024|Viewpoint|0 Comments

Happiness is Like Log Rolling

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I don’t know how to be happy as a sustained state of being. I can be happy for moments and I have been trying to find joy in little things, but I struggle to be overall content with where […]

By |March 25th, 2024|Viewpoint|0 Comments

The Small Joys My Daughter Will Miss in Prison

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In a little over a month, my daughter will be sentenced to prison. It will be for years, not months. I am unable to fathom what this will be like. She will miss so much of what life should […]

By |March 18th, 2024|Viewpoint|0 Comments

Oldest Daughter Arrested, Emotions in Turmoil

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When I flew back with my four-month-old, adopted daughter, from her home country to my home, a prison scenario was not in my head as her future. I am furious; or maybe I am depressed mixed with grief. At […]

By |February 25th, 2024|Current Events|0 Comments

Tribute – 108 Year-Old Grandmother

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My husband’s 108-year-old grandmother passed away on Monday, Jan 29th. Today is Friday, Feb 2nd, only four days later. Except for a few hours Monday afternoon when my husband and I went across town to pick up her personal effects from the care facility, I have continued showing up each day […]

By |February 2nd, 2024|Current Events|0 Comments

Back into the Nightmare with My Oldest Daughter

Was it only in March that I wrote the “Jail to Job to Joy” blog? That was just ten weeks ago. After six years of what I thought was upright living by my oldest daughter, I became convinced that I needed to relax my guard and celebrate her. I thought I could finally look […]

By |June 4th, 2023|Current Events|0 Comments

Why Not Now?

I have a soft spot in my heart for English cottages with country gardens. No matter that I live in a different country. In my mind’s eye, I see myself as retired in the “cutest cottage ever”, pottering around in a verdant garden filled with a riotous display of colorful flowering plants, somehow growing […]

By |April 16th, 2023|Viewpoint|0 Comments