Boundaries with Incarcerated Sociopathic Daughter

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Norman Rockwell Paintings

I love Norman Rockwell paintings. I fully realize that they are the quintessential “Americana” portraits of life in the early to mid-twentieth century and as such are an idealized version of family life. Still, there is […]

By |August 4th, 2024|Viewpoint|Comments Off on Boundaries with Incarcerated Sociopathic Daughter

My Daughter is a Sociopath

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My daughter is a Sociopath. I have been thinking about that word a lot lately, as if “sociopath” is a math problem that if I just concentrate long enough on, I can solve.

What does “sociopath” even mean? What does the label mean in terms […]

By |July 11th, 2024|Viewpoint|Comments Off on My Daughter is a Sociopath

Easter Seems Like a Good Time to Be Hopeful Again

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After posting my dark blog last week, I (weirdly) felt a bit lighter in spirit, as if the heaviness of my soul was lifted after sending those words out into cyberspace. Along with slightly more positive thinking this past week, I have had a growing realization […]

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Happiness is Like Log Rolling

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I don’t know how to be happy as a sustained state of being. I can be happy for moments and I have been trying to find joy in little things, but I struggle to be overall content with where […]

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The Small Joys My Daughter Will Miss in Prison

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In a little over a month, my daughter will be sentenced to prison. It will be for years, not months. I am unable to fathom what this will be like. She will miss so much of what life should […]

By |March 18th, 2024|Viewpoint|Comments Off on The Small Joys My Daughter Will Miss in Prison

Why Not Now?

I have a soft spot in my heart for English cottages with country gardens. No matter that I live in a different country. In my mind’s eye, I see myself as retired in the “cutest cottage ever”, pottering around in a verdant garden filled with a riotous display of colorful flowering plants, somehow growing […]

By |April 16th, 2023|Viewpoint|Comments Off on Why Not Now?

Easter Weekend: New Beginnings

All across the country this weekend, adorable toddlers dressed (usually by their mothers) in pastel shades of purples, blues and pinks are running around grassy areas holding Easter baskets, gleefully finding plastic eggs filled with jellybeans and brightly colored, foil wrapped chocolates.

I remember those days with my own kids, like it was yesterday. I […]

By |April 8th, 2023|Viewpoint|Comments Off on Easter Weekend: New Beginnings

Forbearance

A friend of mine used the term “forbearance” recently in reference to getting through this pandemic. I have been thinking about that word ever since.
I remember back in March when everything first shut down and parents started to work from home. After a few weeks, my husband and I would walk around the block […]

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Our Elderly Relatives Need Connection During This Pandemic

We lost two elderly relatives this past summer. They were both in the last half of their nineties so maybe we would have lost them anyway, however I believe they died from lack of connection during this COVID environment. Neither of them had COVID, however I believe they were still indirect casualties of COVID.

My […]

By |September 13th, 2020|Viewpoint|Comments Off on Our Elderly Relatives Need Connection During This Pandemic

My Husband…It is the Little Things That Count

I have written a lot of blogs over the last six years and I think this is the first time I have written one specifically about my husband. I am going to write about him today because I have been thinking this week about the little things he does that mean a lot to […]

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